Seattle, Eritrea, Ethiopia, and Iran

IMG_8584There are those times in your life when you are certain that God has planned and orchestrated every moment. You can trace each moment – the good and seemingly bad – back to God’s design.

So much of life has these moments. Other moments seem quiet and quite uncertain. You wonder where God is and how you are going to navigate out of this crazy maze of life.

This weekend was more so like the former…it was quite incredible!

Eric and I spent the weekend exploring Seattle. We flew in and were staying downtown at the Alexis Hotel. We decided to opt out of a rental car because everything was within walking distance and/or close enough to take a taxi.

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Our first taxi ride was so awesome. We got in late on Thursday night. At the sight of the first taxi available, we hopped in. He drove us to our hotel. While talking to him about the city and why we were there, we started to ask him questions about himself. Questions about his family. Questions about his job. He had an accent so we asked him where he was from, and how he got there?

His answer was: “The Lord.”

He was so bold, just like John the Baptist. Unsure about who was riding in his car, but certain that he had a message to tell. It was so amazing to see his faith and boldness no matter what the cost. I’m certain he could have lost his job if the wrong person hopped into his car and complained.

He went on to explain how he won a ‘lottery’ to get to America. His country, Eritrea, had some program that helped people get to America free of cost. Amazing that he won out of all his friends who filled out similar forms to be in the same lottery.
IMG_8646He explained how he grew up as a devout muslim and how one day he had a dream about John 14 and Jesus telling his disciples that he “is the way, the truth, and the life.” He explained how his religion at the time, Islam, always saw Jesus as a prophet but how this verse was Jesus calling to him and telling him that Jesus was the ONLY WAY, and not the prophet of Islam, Mohammad. He said his brother had been praying for him to come to faith in Jesus for so long. He explained that he began drinking at a young age…something ridiculous like 11 or 12 – I can’t remember exactly how young. When he awoke from this dream, he immediately believed in Jesus and immediately stopped drinking. We left so encouraged by his faith and boldness!

The next day, we planned on heading to the movies. Well, our plans got diverted. After putting in the address to what we thought was the theater for the Uber driver, Joseph, we ended up 40 minutes and $32.00 worth of an uber trip away from where we were supposed to go. It was out of our plan, but it was definitely planned by God. The man in the vehicle was a middle aged Iranian man. We again were talking to him about his life. Again the topic of Jesus came up and he shared with us about how he became a believer in Jesus. He grew up in Iran and 30 years ago came to the US.

IMG_8651His daughter ended up being diagnosed with Kidney disease of some sort. They had talked about removing the small, bad kidney, but that it would not necessarily guarantee health. They opted to continue with dialysis and skip surgery. They had pretty much tried everything and nothing worked. One of their friends said to them, “You have tried everything, why not try Jesus?” He grew up Muslim and did not want to try this. He did not believe in the power of Jesus. But after trying everything, he agreed to go to a church service with his family.

The guest pastor was on stage and said to the crowd: “I feel as though there is someone here who has a family member with a kidney problem.” They immediately knew it was about them. The pastor prayed over their daughter. They left the church that evening and forgot about it.

IMG_8603Weeks later, they went back to the hospital for their usual checkup and to get dialysis. The doctors asked them after some tests what they had done. Naturopathy? Oils? Etc? They said no to everything and forgot about the prayers said for his daughter. She was healed, but they did not remember at that moment how…

Later, Joseph ran into his friend who invited him to church. His friend asked how his daughter was doing and immediately remembered the prayers said for his daughter. His whole family became devout Christians following Christ with every part of their lives. Amazing!

We got diverted from the theater (40 minutes out of our way and a $32.00 trip hopefully to bless Joseph with some extra cash), to hear this amazing story.

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Yesterday, we headed to the Space Needle. It was a short trip there, but the Uber driver was from…guess where…Eritrea. A small country that has only been a country since 1991. Yet, it felt like we were running into all those who are living in America now…crazy!

Lastly, on the way home, our driver was a really young girl. Maybe only 18 or 19…perhaps older, but by looks and demeanor, young. She was so so sweet. She was from Ethiopia which is just South of …you guessed it, ERITREA. She moved to America on her own and is still living on her own. I asked her if Seattle felt like home yet or if she was still having a hard time. She said, no, it wasn’t home yet. In Ethiopia, cost of living is so cheap it costs nothing to hire a maid to clean and a cook to prepare meals. In America, you have to do that all on your own. Not to mention, work hours and hours to just ‘make it.’

IMG_8614She then mentioned that she had cousins living in America, but that her mother and father and brothers and sisters lived back home. ‘Mothers make everything okay,’ she said, and I agreed fully. I then asked her if she had lots of friends here…and she sadly said, no. As she said this, we pulled up to our hotel. I tried to encourage her and gave her some advice to find a church because a church community and Jesus make almost everything better. She pointed to her cross. We left saying, “God Bless.”

IMG_8594This weekend has been so amazing and so encouraging. Not only did I get to spend quality one-on-one time with my husband for our two year anniversary, but I got to be encouraged in my faith, and see God bless us with amazing stories of his work in others lives. We got to our hotel room last night and were just so in shock by all the connections and amazing stories that God had weaved for us to see. You can’t help but wonder how these people’s lives will turn out in 2 years, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years…50 years from now. Will I bump into them again someday? Only God knows.

Even if I do not bump into them on this side of heaven, I know that I will get to see many of them in heaven walking the streets of gold with me. Amazing!

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Place of Sanctuary.

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Yep, no dishwasher….

Dishes filling the sink. Laundry overflowing out of the hamper. Toothpaste spots all over the mirror. Cherrios scattered across the floor. Beds unmade. Throw pillows off the couch and in a heap. Whew, just thinking about the mess can be overwhelming…

As I spend time in my house, I spend most of that time wishing I wasn’t there to be quite honest. The lingering feeling of disarray and chaos makes being home an anxiety instead of a joy.

This weekend I got to listen to hours of wisdom by Sally Clarkson. She wrote the book Desperate, alongside of Sarah Mae, and let me tell you, that book spoke to my heart. And this weekend spoke to my heart. I left feeling so challenged and so ready to conquer my little world.

She spoke about hospitality and order and mentoring and engaging your family…h.o.m.e. Things that I dream of being better at…things I constantly fail at.

Yes, some I do well, but others are non-existent. Like order, for example. That paragraph about dishes and laundry and cherrios. Yep. That’s my life on a regular basis. So I sit in the home that should be a sanctuary to allow my family’s hearts to blossom and instead I feel angst.

Our home should be a place of rest. It should be a place where we, me, my husband, and my child(ren), should feel the most comfortable. It should be a place to engage with one another. It should be a place of learning and growing. It should be a place of peace and order.

So, I came home with fire under my butt ready to conquer these goals I have set… So what are my goals, you ask? Here they are:

-Morning: clean up the breakfast mess. Put dried dishes away. Make bed.

-Night: Clean up the house at 5:30pm before Eric gets home and before Jackson goes to bed. Dishes done before bed. Toys picked up off the floor before bed. Pillows straightened on the couch.

-Play music throughout the day. Turn the TV off more. Spend time outside – go to the park, go to the beach, go walk.

-Weekly: Welcome people into my home and serve them. Vacuum, sweep, and mop as needed. Clean bathroom. Accomplish one project a week. Do laundry before it becomes a necessity.

-Daily: spend time with God by reading my bible, spend time in prayer by journaling, pray for others. Shower (gosh, that this even needs to be a goal…#momlife). Set my diffuser in the morning so it will run all day with uplifting, energizing oils to create a welcoming and encouraging space. Don’t be in such a hurry.

-Work: Spend 10-30 minutes a day working and building my business.

So these are my goals…I love them and they seem very reasonable because they are specific and timely.

Set a smart goal with me:

S – specific

M – measurable

A – attainable

R – realistic

T – timely

Anyone else have goals they set recently? Maybe you fell off the new years resolution wagon and you need to set some new goals that are more attainable?

 

Speak Less.

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The irony of this makes me laugh.

A post about using less words.

Yet, I process with words…trying to find the happy medium.

As of late, I have blogged less and I think one of the reasons behind this is for several reasons…One, well, life is crazy. Two, I feel that my words have become so many that they have lost their importance.

I was telling my husband the other day that I need to stop talking as much in our growth group. I was somewhat expecting him to say, “nooo honey, what you say is so valuable and important…” But, he replied with a simple “yes.” It somewhat stung to hear that, but it was so good and so humbling. He probably doesn’t even remember saying it, but it resonated with me throughout this week.

Today, as I was reading in Proverbs, God’s Word really spoke to me. The Proverbs talk a lot about fools and the wise. I often read the verses and think, “oh, that was inspirational…I’ll add that to the list of the billion other things I need to work on.” Today was different…as I was reading, the ‘babbling fool’ was mentioned several times. And each time, I read it as myself instead of categorizing it to someone else who I think talks a lot…HAHA…

So as I read Proverbs 10:19, I read. “Whenever [Sarah’s] words are many, transgression is not lacking, but when [Sarah] restrains [her] lips [she] is prudent.” Or verse 8: “The wise of heart will receive commandments, but [Sarah], the babbling fool, will come to ruin.”

Yep, ouch…those outcomes don’t sound too fun.

We did an exercise in our growth group on Tuesday, and they asked us to name one of the heart attitudes that our church adapted from scripture (see them here) that we have the most difficult time with. I put one answer (which is definitely difficult for me), but as I look back on the last few months, (and if I’m being honest, the last [not quite] 26 years of my life) I struggle with giving and receiving scriptural correction. Like verse 19, I talk a lot and transgressions are many…and for those of us who talk a lot, pride is strongly attached to that.

It’s gonna be a long road, but it will be worth it.

So, reader of my blog, here’s where you come in…

What are some ways you have combatted over-talking? How have you chosen wisdom in this area of your life? How have you seen God work as you have chosen to restrain yourself instead of having babbling lips?

Ready, Set, Go!