“Since we were forged by The Lover, we should delight in love and in being loved. It would be inhumane not to delight in love. It would also be inhumane if we didn’t hurt deeply when rejected or sinned against by others. The problem is not that we desire love, the problem is how much we desire it or for what purpose we desire it. Do we desire it so much that it overshadows our desire to be imitators of God? Do we desire it for our own pleasure or for God’s glory?” – When People are Big and God is Small – Edward T. Welch